An app built for life, not romance
Because the gap has always existed, and nobody's filled it.
You're already doing it all, but around the options you have, not the ones you'd choose.
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Anticipating what's coming next, holding it all together, making sure they can show up and be included...And you've made it work.
But mothers have always known there's a better way. They've always raised children together. Because it works.
A system built for that doesn't exist. Yet.
intentnl is building you your infrastructure,
starting with shared help.
Built from the inside, by someone living it who knows exactly what's at stake.​
​We're clearing the path for every mother, wherever she's starting from.
This starts with listening
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No hollow swiping.
No deserted online communities.
No silenced WhatsApp groups.
You put in, you get back, and it builds from there.
Three ways to get involved
​At this point, any level of engagement is the signal we're looking for. How much is entirely up to you.
...and breathe.
The load, shared. And everything that gives back.
FAQ's
What does "without a co-pilot" mean?
It means you're the one holding it all together – without a consistent, present partner to share the load with. That might mean you're parenting alone, a solo parent by choice, someone whose partner is often absent, or anything in between. The label doesn't matter. If you're navigating home and family life without someone consistently beside you, intentnl is starting with you.
Where do I need to be based to be involved?
We're starting in London. If you're based elsewhere in the UK, you can still shape what we build by completing the Shared Help questionnaire. We'll let you know when we reach your area. Or just put your name down on the waitlist to hear when we launch near you.
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For Shared Living research, location doesn't matter. We want to hear from mothers across the UK.
What will the app actually do?
It will help you find mothers nearby whose lives complement yours and make it straightforward to share the everyday. That could be the school run, an hour's cover, or the meal you didn't have time to cook. That's where we're starting.
Things like shared rent or mortgages, the house with a garden and enough space to breathe – that's where we're headed. All of it is to play for.
I already have some support around me. Is this still relevant for me?
If you ever find yourself stretched in a moment when another mother could help – and you know you could do the same for her – then yes. intentnl isn't about replacing what you have. It's about building something more intentional than what circumstance has handed you, and giving you back your choices.
What's the difference between Shared Help and Shared Living?
Shared Help is where we're starting with the app – practical, everyday support between mothers. Shared Living is the research for where we're going next: an app that helps mothers design and build the home and life they actually want, faster, with less friction, and with more freedom. You can take part in both, or tell us you're just keen to know when we launch.